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Music and a little sex (not filter explicit)
The only consensus that really seemed to be reached was that instead of a little music that a few people don't like, there should be a wider variety of music to be fair to everybody. In theory, it should even out so that everybody gets a little good and a little bad. So right now, Benj is playing some random marching band music. I'm going to make a playlist of punk convers and, if I have them, the real versions of the songs. If we can get our hands on come cheesy deep country-western music, that'll be good, or an episode of the HGTG radio show every day. If I can steal some of Julie's vesions, we could even have the Take On Me hour. Other suggestions are, of course, welcome.
I also went to Aja/Andy's sex workshop. I think the reason that there wasn't any talk about non-vanilla sex is that people prefer to keep that their own business. Among thirty people, very few people will be comfortable with asking questions about BDSM or anal play or whatever else. Once people know they're interested in that, it's a matter for them and their partner(s). I think the important message did get across, though, that you should communicate with your partners about what you want and what you're interested in, and there are important ways to keep non-vanilla sex safe.
Anyway. I should do work, but instead I'm going to make a punk cover playlist, and then look over my schedule some more.
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I also went to Aja/Andy's sex workshop. I think the reason that there wasn't any talk about non-vanilla sex is that people prefer to keep that their own business. Among thirty people, very few people will be comfortable with asking questions about BDSM or anal play or whatever else. Once people know they're interested in that, it's a matter for them and their partner(s). I think the important message did get across, though, that you should communicate with your partners about what you want and what you're interested in, and there are important ways to keep non-vanilla sex safe.
Anyway. I should do work, but instead I'm going to make a punk cover playlist, and then look over my schedule some more.
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